Thank God it’s Monday,

For the first 30 years or so of my life, I tried to control everything. I was the classic control freak. It used to drive me nuts…literally! My life was filled with disappointments, frustration and stress. I was insufferable to be around. This is a tough thing to admit and it almost cost me everything.

One of the most important lessons I’ve learned is to gain control you must learn to give up control. This is one of life’s great paradoxes.

I know for a fact my experience is not unique to me. I see it all the time. More relationships and personal well-beings have been destroyed by the need to be in control. I have seen business owners who have been unable to get out of their own way because of their inability to delegate and let go of things they have no business doing.

We have little to no control of things outside ourselves, but we have 100% control of things inside our self. We have sole control over our inner world. This is where all our attention and intention must be.

How we experience things is up to us.

Live inspired, be abundant and fulfill your destiny,

Thank God it’s Monday,

If there is one constant in life it is change. Once we learn to embrace this universal truth life becomes magical.

Change for many is like a visit to the Dentist, it is painful and uncomfortable. We resist like a 5-year-old eating broccoli. What we don’t realize is the more we resist change, the harder and more difficult life becomes.

I often hear people say, “I like things just the way they are.” Life is not stagnant. We are either growing or dying. If we really examine our lives everything is changing all the time. Nothing stays the same. Our world is changing at break neck speed. Do you own a cell phone?

Learn to embrace change. Make it your new mantra. Everyday affirm, “change is normal, change is good.” You will begin to see all the possibilities that exist around you.

You will experience less anxiety and uncertainty that occurs with the unknown.

Imagine if Ben and Jerry’s only sold vanilla ice cream? How boring!

Live inspired, live abundant and fulfill your destiny,

Thank God it’s Monday,

You have probably heard that “The fastest way to learn something is to teach it.” This is one of life’s great paradoxes. I know you are thinking, “how can I teach something I don’t know everything about?”

The fact is you can never know all there is know about anything. Don’t wait until you “know all about it” or have it “mastered”. It is your knowledge and experience that is needed.

The world needs what you have to offer. Go out and teach and help others. The more you teach the more you learn. By doing so, you will learn more about your topic and yourself.

We can provide great value. There is no greater reward than to give our time and talents. It will benefit the lives of others. So don’t wait, the world needs to know what you know.

Live inspired, be abundant and fulfill your destiny,

Thank God it’s Monday,

When you woke this morning, what was the first thing you thought of? What was on the top of your to-do list? When we are clear of our life’s purpose our first thought should ALWAYS be, what do I need to do today to move me closer to my #1 goal.

What is most important in our lives is what we decide to put our focus and attention to. Your decisions will ultimately determine your destiny.

If your day begins with random thoughts and actions, then start by getting a clear mission and purpose. Your mission is your WHY! Why are you here and what do you want to be known for? Your purpose is your legacy. How will your purpose impact the lives of others?

We have a relatively short period of time to be able to impact the world. There is no time to waste. We need to have a plan every day. That plan is your strategy to fulfill your mission and purpose. Those who have the most clarity and a well thought out and documented plan get the most done.

So get started now! Why wait? There has never been a better time to take action. Get clear, get a plan and get going!

Live inspired, be abundant and fulfill your destiny,

Thank God it’s Monday,

I want to thank all of you who take the time to read my Monday Morning Motivational blogs. I am humbled and grateful that you find value in these lessons. I started writing this blog 3 years ago to fulfill my mission; “To inspire millions to live happier, healthier and more prosperous lives.”

I began writing these blogs soon after I adopted a gratitude mindset. That’s when everything in my life changed such as my relationships, experiences, abundance and opportunities.

It is easy to be grateful for the good things in your life, but we need to learn to be grateful for life’s challenges. We also need to be grateful for the things yet to come, because that requires faith.

Living in the presence of gratitude changes everything.

If there is one gift I can wish for each of you this Christmas, it is the gift of a consciousness of gratitude. It will never let you down or disappoint. It gives back everyday.

Give yourself the gift of a gratitude journal. Write in it daily. Start by giving thanks for the good things, for your challenges, for someone and for something yet to come. Unlock the power of gratitude in your life this coming year and experience your best year ever.

Merry Christmas.

Live inspired, be abundant and fulfill your destiny,

Thank God it’s Monday,

I was recently watching an interview with Patriots quarterback, Tom Brady. The interviewer asked him how he was able to overcome an interception that nearly cost his team a game, to eventually lead his team to a victory.

He said, “I never focus on the last play, it is over and I can’t do anything about it. My focus is on the things I can control like the next play. I can get down on myself and effect my team or I can let it go and focus on how I can help my team get a win.” This is a simple, but powerful lesson.

How often do we remain fixated on the bad things that happen in life? We lament on the negative experiences for what seems like forever. Is it possible to adopt the same mindset of a 4-time Super Bowl champion? Why not!

The next time you experience one of life’s inevitable set backs, determine how long you will give yourself before you decide to move forward. An hour, a day, a week? You get to decide. The quicker you let go of the disappointment the quicker you can move your life forward. It is ok to feel the pain; it is not ok to let it define you.

Live inspired, be abundant and fulfill your destiny,